About Orgasm In Women?
hello, I want to ask, my girlfriend didn’t know that the clitoris can stimulate masturbation, from the first she masturbated just by pinching the pillow, then when she had foreplay it made her really excited but still didn’t climax, the clitoris didn’t really stimulate her, she just tickled , when having sex he says he never climaxes or he doesn’t understand how it feels to climax, he just feels achy, he never squirts, is this a problem with the stimulation function? Or are there some people who are really hard to get aroused? is there a cure so that women are more sensitive to stimulation?
Ejection/orgasm in women or better known as squirting or gushing has a different mechanism from ejaculation in men. Where in men ejaculation peaks / climaxes during sexual intercourse, in women the mechanism of this climax phase is still unclear, besides that even though a person has reached the climax phase it is not a guarantee that women will experience squirting. Based on research that has been done only a small number of women can experience squirting (so it is much more dominant that women do not experience this), then there are women who experience squirting who only experience it once in their lifetime. So it is not correct to conclude that women who are not squirting are not satisfied during sexual intercourse, because in fact squriting is not something that must happen when women experience a climax phase during sexual intercourse.
So you don't have to worry if you don't satisfy your partner, as well as for your partner, you don't need to worry if you don't experience squirting, because the majority of women don't experience this. However, if you are still in doubt, your partner can consult an obstetrician and gynecologist for further evaluation.
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