Can Not Resist The Desire To Have Sex (a 44-year-old Aunt Is Normal)?

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The doctor introduced me to Raya Perrez, 44 years old from Jakarta. I am a widow, my husband died about 9 months ago … more or less 5 months ago I began to approach men who are far below my age. (usually 20-30 max) The first time I went was to go to a massage parlor that provided a bedbug service, since Dr. my husband died until now. I feel there are other things that make my passion become uncontrollable, now almost every day I want the name to have sex. More and more days I find it hard to resist the urge to have sex.

1 Answer:

Hai Raya,

Thank you for asking

Because of hormonal fluctuations in the body, women can indeed experience an increase in sexual arousal at certain times. Frequently, sexual arousal will increase around the time of ovulation, ie when a mature egg is removed from the ovary into the uterus. However, if only due to the influence of natural hormonal fluctuations, this condition should be controlled without being followed.

If you feel you must comply with your increased sexual desire, including by going to a special massage parlor or looking for male friends on social media to be invited to have sex, and you also feel stressed if you do not vent your sexual arousal, this might indicate an indication psychiatric disorders called hypersexual disorders (hypersexuality disorder, compulsive sexual behavior). Many factors can underlie this condition, including imbalance of chemical compounds in the brain (specifically serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine), changes in chemical pathways in the brain, and certain conditions that affect the work of the brain (for example epilepsy, dementia, or certain medications). The stress that you experience after losing your beloved husband may trigger this condition. It could also be that your condition is aggravated by alcohol and drug consumption, certain mental disorders (such as depression or excessive anxiety), and a history of domestic violence, physical or sexual abuse.

You can try first to do the following efforts to overcome them:

Increase self-introspection, if there are mistakes in yourself, fix it immediately
Be reconciled with your past and destiny, believe the things that happen in your life are well organized by God Almighty
Be grateful for everything you have
Focusing on restructuring your life, doing positive things that can make you better, for example by studying, working, socializing with good colleagues, exercising, worshiping
If you have a problem, look for a solution, don't think about it too complicated. Share your complaints with people you trust can help find solutions to your problems.
Stay away from cigarettes, alcohol and drugs
If a desire arises for sexual intercourse, divert it with other positive activities
Avoid free sex
If possible, you can remarry to channel your sexual desires to the right person

However, if the steps above have not been successful in resolving your complaint, we recommend that you consult yourself directly to the doctor or psychiatrist so that it will be handled well, okay?

I hope this helps.

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