Children Aged 2 Years, In 1 Week 3 Times Crying Out To Vomit, What Is Tantrum?
halodok, my child is 2 years and less than 2 months. already 1 week there are 3 times he cried loudly. and like angry. whatever I give and do to divert attention is always rejected. I thought he was in a tantrum so if he cried I would just leave it and I would carry him. but if you cry he often vomits out mucus. does that mean maybe it’s not tantrum huh? please explain
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Tantrums are emotional children that overflow so that children cry, shout or throw things. This was triggered by his unfulfilled desire but could not express it because he could not speak complexly in understanding sentences. This condition is common in children aged 1-4 years. Tantrums will easily appear when a child is hungry, tired or sleepy.
The target of children in tantrums is to hope that adults can grant their wishes. However, of course if it is fulfilled just like that, this will become a habit in children every time they have a desire. Of course things like that are not the right pattern of care. So how do you deal with it? You can read the cover here, okay?
After you read it, you will be able to understand that what you are doing is not right. Mothers must be able to prioritize communication with children, not silence children. Tell your child that the way to ask is the wrong way and you don't like the behavior so you don't want to repeat it. Communication is done gently but firmly and authoritative. If what the child wants is not good for him according to you, then you should divert his attention by playing or working together. Children are very easily diverted towards interesting things, especially things that give their full attention to them, such as playing together.
It is important for you to know, a child crying for a long time is not a good thing. For example, your child experienced. Because crying will increase the pressure in the stomach so that it pushes the stomach to release its contents as vomiting.
It is also necessary for you to remember, that when a child is in a tantrum you must have a lot of patience. Beating, scolding or saying bad words to children when tantrums are in vain, because it will not make children stop from being tantrums. In addition, it will only make the child copy the behavior of the mother as a bad example.
Thus hopefully useful.