Children Have Difficulty Understanding Language, What Are The Causes And How To Overcome Them?
Doctors, children aged 9 years but still have difficulty understanding standard language such as written language on the exam questions, or formal spoken language in everyday conversation. So it often happens misunderstanding. Example of the phrase “love to friends ” The child immediately reacts with anger and rejection when he hears the sentence because what he understands turns out that “darling ” is interpreted by hugging his cheek and kissing like his parents did to him. So he thought the sentence had told him to hug and kiss his friends who are numerous, so he immediately cursed after hearing the sentence without wanting to read the continuation of the sentence first. Another example, the child has difficulty understanding the sentence command but after being explained he understands, and difficulty understanding story problems, difficulty understanding questions containing the word “except”. Children also often question the meaning of words, ask to be explained concretely. What is the big news? Etc. Is this still normal? What causes? Is there any connection with the development of the brain? Then how to overcome it. Thank you
Good morning, thanks for asking at HealthReplies.com. We understand your concern, but your child's condition still requires further investigation because there are many aspects that need to be followed up on.
For example regarding misunderstanding about the meaning of the word dear. We must find out where he got that understanding. Because if there is one moment in his life he is taught that the meaning of the word compassion is as understood now, then it is not his fault. Because after all, all the words we understand now come from teaching. If we are not told that the understanding of a word is wrong, then we will continue to use it without realizing that it is a wrong understanding, even though we are adults.
Then for difficulty understanding formal language. It's also natural that everyday he doesn't hear good and correct language in his home environment. Other causes, for example, if at home, both parents always speak in English or regional languages, the Indonesian language is not honed and can then be understood if the Indonesian language skills are not good. Then the habit of children to ask even then natural. Children always ask questions and have a great curiosity is a good sign of intelligence.
Although indeed, this could be a sign of an abnormality, such as a sign of autism, a brain disorder or other growth and development disorders. That is why we say that there are many aspects to consider. Our advice, take your child to be examined by a child psychologist or pediatrician at a growth and development clinic so that you can do a thorough assessment of your child. By digging deep history can be known whether there is a tendency toward abnormalities and what is the best treatment.
Meanwhile, continue to teach your child everything you want him to understand. Even though they are already in school, the role of parents is very large in the advancement of children's education. So, hopefully answering your question.