Difficult To Talk To Other People And Shy?
I want to ask. I am 21 years old .. I was a little very quiet and also a bit shy … I am a very rare person whose name is chatting like that .. Especially when talking to people it feels like my mouth is so tight. Sometimes I, for example, are invited to chat for a long time, but I feel like my body is tired and weak. Sometimes I am afraid to meet other people. Sometimes I feel sad myself because of my current condition.
Hello Aris, Thank you for the question.
Do you think that your condition is disturbing your daily activities? Each person has a different personality and can not be compared to one another. There are people who have an open / extroverted personality but some are more introverted. From your story, you might belong to an introvert personality. There is nothing wrong with having an introverted personality. People with this personality tend to be shy and have a habit of digesting things themselves and choosing what needs to be conveyed to people and what is not. People with introverted personalities are also more comfortable to socialize with just a few people than larger groups of people. You don't need to be discouraged by your personality. You can develop it in a positive direction, for example doing activities that you like, writing things that interest you, trying to interact simply with other people such as just greeting people, taking public speaking training. For now, you don't have to worry about. You don't need to be the same as other people.
However, if this condition is accompanied by the habit of avoiding social interactions, have limited emotional, do not want to establish closeness with others (including family), then this condition may be caused by personality disorders. In these conditions, please consult with a psychiatrist / psychiatrist further to be able to ascertain why and can be treated as soon as possible.
I hope this helps.