Easy To Be Jealous And Like To Hurt Yourself?
Afternoon doctor I want to ask I have a fiance but every time we argue about me permission to go with friends or there are photos with friends together (girl boy) he always asks d delete He always feels jealous If I do not follow his requests he likes to hit himself , banging my own head in front of me Like being afraid of doctors I have spoken well if relationships are unhealthy if they are always restrained let alone have to follow his will Moreover I don’t chat or don’t give news Like spam chat like terrorizing Does he have a mental disorder or how well the doctor handles it
Good evening, thanks for asking at HealthReplies.com. We understand your concern. But unfortunately, it's not as easy as diagnosing mental disorders, especially if it is not confirmed directly by the person concerned. Because we do not know, whether in fact he just did it to get your attention, or it applies to everything that relates to him, not only you. For example when he was little he was not given toys or attention by his parents, whether he showed similar behavior or not.
We also do not know, what underlies his attitude. He may have felt the loss of someone or something he loved, and he did not want that to happen to you. It's just that he is not mature enough to display it properly. The point is, once again, even if you think your attitude is strange and excessive, it's not that easy to diagnose someone with a mental disorder, it takes an in-depth and purposeful interview to find out who your fiance is and what happened to him.
So our advice, try you find a situation where the condition of his feelings well, and tell him that you ask him to consult him to a psychologist or psychiatrist because you are worried about him. If the response is not good, then talk to his parents, because this will obviously affect your household life later, which will obviously be far more complex than now. So take this situation seriously, by involving others and your parents if necessary, but still by maintaining politeness, patience and common sense. Do not immediately judge and accuse, because there could be an explanation that you do not understand. So, hopefully answering your question.