Emotions And Thinking Of Wanting To Hurt Others?
Good evening, I’m a girl. I am 17 years old. I want to know about why I am. R n r nEvery time I get emotional or think about someone I don’t like, I always think about hurting that person. In fact, I plan how to hurt or even kill people I don’t like. But I tried to hold it in, so I just kept quiet. I also felt indifferent and innocent at the thought of it happening. R n r nI used to be just plain normal when someone blurted out excessive insults to me. But lately I feel like hurting people who do that. Whether it’s a close friend or someone I don’t like, I will think of doing bad things to him if I’m not happy or I overreact about his attitude. R n r nI’m curious about what’s wrong with me, huh?
Hello Gran Primo,
Every human being can have the desire to kill or hurt others, especially when he is confronted. Humans have a basic drive or instinct that always wants to be satisfied which is called as Id. However, due to the existence of values, normalities, and regulations that apply in the Ego and Superego community, humans can suppress the Id and do not do it because they believe it is not true and can have bad consequences.
One personality disorder, such as dissocial or antisocial personality disorder can provide these characteristics. Usually there are other symptoms that are not caring about the feelings of others, do not care about the rules, norms, social obligations that apply, unable to maintain relationships with others, low frustration tolerance is very eager to vent aggression including violence on others, tend to blame others , unable to feel guilty.
Fantasy wants to hurt or kill other people who continue to appear can one day end in a person's real actions. Fantasy about it can endanger others and also harm yourself. If it interferes with your daily activities at work and social relations, you should consult further with a psychiatrist. Also share the problem you are experiencing with your family or people closest to you so they can discuss the right solution together.
Thus the explanation from me, may be useful.