Handling Changes In Behavior, Habits And Ways Of Thinking?
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Hello sister Chairina,
Changes in behavior, habits and ways of thinking will continue to develop as long as human life is influenced by factors of family, friends, community, environment, culture around because humans generally have imitation properties, which can imitate either consciously or unconsciously habits or ways of working to the appearance of other people (your friend). ), while other people (your friends) behave like giving suggestions about their behavior and appearance towards their surroundings and dominant attitudes, especially if you feel your friend's way of thinking or acting is quite acceptable or feels good or cool then you will be easily influenced so you start have the same traits and habits as your friend. Apart from Imitation, there can also be states such as Borderline Personality, Paranoid.
Personality disorder is a person's behavior and thought patterns outside the normal norms and values of humans or society, the characteristics are acting strangely, withdrawing, difficult to get along with and not easy to approach, having strange thinking patterns and often having bad thoughts. (Click on the article Types of personality disorders).
It is true that in contrast to multiple personalities (Click article here) the situation you feel is different. Multiple personality is a human condition such as having two or more different mindsets, characters, ways of behaving and personal in one human, that personality appears triggered by a traumatic event, and one personality with another personality does not remember each other or remember activities until the incident. one another.
Was the change in your behavior negative? If the change in behavior in a negative direction leads you to take illegal drugs or do bad habits that are contrary to religion and norms of life, you can consult a psychiatrist or psychologist for help.
Tips that can be done if a friend is a bad influence is to stay away from that friend, get closer to a friend who is a good influence, tell your family about your worries and your intention to stay away from certain friends, get closer to religion and do more hobbies.
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