Is There Any Technology That Prevents Disability In Marriage To Siblings?
Hello,. Actually what I want to ask is disgrace. I ran away from home and married abroad with my brother. I settled in a country that legalizes incest. But even though it’s legal my husband doesn’t want to have children. Because the risk of having a disabled child is high because of the similarity of our chromosomes. I want to ask if the technology is now enough to reduce the possibility of my child with disabilities? Because I really want to have children
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Incest is illegal in most countries. Of course, this rule is enforced not without reason. From the medical point of view, inbreeding is known to greatly increase the risk of the fetus from your marriage being born defective (4 times more risky than non-blood partners), dying after birth (stillbirth), or even experiencing intellectual and psychiatric disabilities. This risk is found mainly in couples who have a gene similarity of up to 50% or more (first-degree relatives, such as parents, children, brothers or sisters). So far, there are no specific medical procedures that can prevent these risks.
Furthermore, not only does it affect your fetus later, incest can also cause you and your partner to always be haunted by feelings of guilt, and can even lead to stress and depression. Your family and the environment around you who don't approve of your marriage can also exclude you. If it's like this, the ultimate happiness that you and your partner get with incest is certainly more difficult to realize.
Various studies mention that the majority of incestors have a history of certain psychiatric disorders, which makes them feel incest is the only way out of the problem. The psychiatric disorder in question can come from a history of experiencing domestic violence, sexual violence, loss of loved ones, bullying, and so on.
This needs special attention, because often, people with psychiatric disorders are not aware of the disorder they are experiencing, so they feel they don't need treatment. Indeed, marital affairs are human rights, including you. However, all the risks that may arise from the marriage also you and your partner will bear it. However, marriage is certainly not solely a matter of love right? You and your partner would want to have children from the marriage, right? You and your partner also would want to live comfortably and happily after undergoing the marriage right?
Our advice, you reflect back on your decision and your partner. Choose what you think is good, not only for you and your current partner, but also for the future of both you, your future children, and your family and environment. Do not you hesitate to consult directly with a doctor or psychiatric specialist.
Hope this helps ...