Often Feel Restless, Anxious, Difficult To Sleep When Doing Things That Are Not Preferred?
so I went to high school and I didn’t like school there because of coercion my parents and parents wanted me to go to midwifery while I really didn’t like the smell of health things I was confused and now I was in 2nd grade when I was undergoing street vendors / prakerin here I started not hold me often restless, anxious, I can not sleep once sleep restless after that if I wake up like I’m being chased something suddenly I cry myself this has started this month continuously I feel I am not useful I want to run away I want to hurt myself do I have to go to a psychiatrist ??
Good afternoon, thank you for asking at HealthReplies.com. We understand your feelings. Doing something that we really don't like can feel like torture. And often other people can't understand how much we dislike it and how hard it is for us to pretend that everything is okay and keep going as if nothing happened.
But on the other hand, you also have to realize that it's not easy to be a parent at all. Parents must understand the gray and thin line between having to obey their children's wishes because that is who they are, with the "heart" to force things because they know it is the best. The easiest example is practicing discipline. Practicing discipline in children will definitely cause the child to feel unhappy in the process. But when they grow up, they realize that discipline is very important in their career, social and academic life.
So here, since we only communicate with you, you should try to be more mature in responding to this incident. First understand that you are upset with your parents, and even though they may be wrong now, they do it because they think of your future. Also understand that your life will not be ruined because you go to a school where you don't like it. Pregnant out of wedlock, free sex until you get HIV, drugs, and committing a crime can change your future for the worse, but this is not the case with school wrong. In fact, the worst possibility is actually only your bad grades because you can't focus. Especially in Indonesia, not always people who undergo a certain field of education will end up in an appropriate profession.
Then, whatever the background, the desire to hurt yourself is enough to advise someone to see a psychiatrist. Our advice, you really should consult with a psychiatrist to find out if you have a tendency to really hurt and endanger yourself in the future, as well as find solutions for the future.
Finally, if you really don't like the condition, tell your parents that. Convey the stress that you face while undergoing education in that place and ask to move. If you can't, complete your education, and work in a profession that is as close as possible to the one you originally wanted to go through.
If that is not possible too, mature your thoughts again and understand that if you really are not able to go through this educational process, you will not be accepted from the beginning. The fact that you have been accepted and have been undergoing for some time is proof that you actually can. Also realize that the person who can't live the life they want isn't just you, and many of them can still be successful. Then so are you. Be patient, because it means you are being tested. So, hopefully answering your question.