Overcoming Feelings Of Sadness And Easy To Cry When Remembering Unpleasant Events?
I want to ask !!! Sata is 17 years old and still in school. My mother likes to yell at the same time blame me and sometimes accuse me .. Just because of trivial matters … my mother likes to bring up and several times tried to drive me away just because I bought solid … she even to the point of vowing not to send me again and like comparing …. every time my mother did that I always cried and sometimes denied the words ….. sometimes when I was daydreaming I always thought of my mother’s words and immediately cried ….. had a few times thought of running away from home and looking work …. or some suicide thinking … please help dokkk ….. for my problem …. in my opinion .. I have such a heavy stresss
Hello Azizah! Thank you for asking at HealthReplies.com.
Having a tenuous relationship with mom is hard. To find out if you are depressed or not, you need a deeper interview and examination by a doctor. However, what I can suggest is try to look back at yourself. We can never truly change others. We can only change ourselves. We can change our mindset in seeing certain situations and conditions. You can try to see again from the perspective of your mother, why she did it. There are no parents who do not love their children. Everyone has a way of showing their affection. Your mother might do this out of love and worry for you. You can talk to him well. Find the right time, then sit with your mother. Discuss how you feel in a good tone. Share what your mother did that makes you feel uncomfortable and why it makes you uncomfortable. You can also convey how that behavior affected you, even if you ever wanted to try to run away or think about suicide. Listen to your mother's side too, why your mother did that. Give your mother time to talk. If you find it difficult to invite your mother to discuss, you can ask the help of teachers, religious leaders, or other adults you trust. Explain to the person so that the person can intercede when you talk to your mother. Instead, what you feel you convey directly to your mother and the adult is only to accompany the discussion to run more smoothly. If it is also difficult to do, you can ask for a psychiatrist's help.
That's all information from me. I hope this helps.