Overcoming The Trauma Of School Children Aged 4 Years 7 Months?

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Hello I want to ask … how to deal with children aged 4 years 7 months who have trauma? So I have been sending to kindergarten A, one day at school there was an event where there were lots of people, there he kept quiet and cried when he went forward singing with his friends … the next day, while on the ceremony I tried to leave dy before entering class, because the day before dy I dared to stay at school and I picked up when I went home … it turns out that time dy was crying and finally brought to class … the next day even cried to vomit in class when I lived home … from there dy every time I want to go to school I don’t want to, and every time I am asked, I always answer, I want to be with my mother, I’m afraid that my mother lives, and finally I try to seduce by saying I wait outside the classroom, but still not working, until now in the second week she is so … But if I ask the teacher in the class how he was in class when he entered, his teacher answered him as usual when entering school, playing with his friends, but it happened when he just entered the classroom, when not yet entered the class he so do not want to play and march with his friends ,,,, beg for your help, how to overcome it, I’m just afraid it will continue until stepping on elementary school later ,, I’ve tried all ways to seduce him, invite to chat but nothing works.

1 Answer:

Hello Mega,


The early days of your child entering school are the moments that are awaited but sometimes children experience anxiety when going to school. This anxiety can be triggered because the child feels worried about being separated from parents / householders, the anxiety of meeting many new people, or other concerns related to activities that are new to him.


Actually children are afraid and cry and do not want to be left at school is a natural thing in the first few days. However, if this condition persists for more than 4 weeks, then the child should be taken in consultation with a pediatrician or psychologist so that it can be further examined.


Your actions to seduce and invite to chat is very appropriate. You can also do the following tips:

Encourage children to talk casually about the experience at school
Let the child tell any story about school, friends or teachers, listen to the child and try not to refute the child's story first
Give understanding that school does not mean you are separated from children, and make sure that you will pick up children on time and will not be late so that children do not worry
See how the child adapts in the school environment, you can start leaving the child at school when the child seems to be getting comfortable and praise the child when he gets home for his courage to go to school
If the child still does not want to be left behind, you can apply a reward, for example you give a gift when the child is willing to be left at school
Encourage children to play in the school playground and make sure that the school is a fun place
Bring a photo of you and your child or a child's favorite toy in a child's bag so that children do not feel alone
Make sure your child gets enough sleep at night and has breakfast the previous morning
Coordinate the child with the teachers

Hope it helps you,


Thank you

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