The Cause Of Easy Erection Of The Penis Only By Visual Stimulation?
Why if I see a woman’s genitals get an erection right away? If you are penetrating while looking at your wife’s genitals, you will climax quickly. So, when I have sex with my wife, I like to be dark so I can’t see the stuff and the results can last a long time. It seems that I am more visually aroused. How to solve it, even though I want to foreplay, play around by looking directly at my wife’s genitals. Is there a therapy? R nThank you.
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Each man has a different threshold with regard to sexual stimulation. There are men who find it difficult to experience an erection even though they have been given such intense sexual stimulation, but in addition, there are also men who experience an erection very easily even though they have only been given minimal stimulation. These types of stimuli can also vary, some are dominant from tactile (touch), visual (vision), auditory (hearing) stimuli, and so on. This condition is what you are likely experiencing at this time.
This difference in threshold does not necessarily indicate an abnormality. Usually the condition like what you experience occurs in men who previously rarely had sex or were exposed to sexual things. If there were no other complications, this condition should improve as the intensity of sexual intercourse increases. This is because the brain needs adaptation in receiving sexual stimulation. The more often you have sex, the more generally your threshold will increase in response to sexual stimulation.
If you can still maintain an erection without premature ejaculation, then this condition should not affect the quality of sexual intercourse. However, if the complaint really bothers you, you can first try the following steps to resolve your complaint:
Dim the lights during sex
Turn your gaze to objects other than your partner's genitals
Explore again, how to foreplay that can satisfy your sexual desires, in addition to playing with your wife's genitals
When there is the desire to ejaculate, take a deep breath, then exhale slowly, repeatedly
Do Kegel exercises diligently
Maintain a healthy lifestyle, sleep regularly, exercise routine, and stay away from cigarettes and alcohol
If the above steps are still unsuccessful in overcoming your complaint, don't hesitate to consult directly with a sexologist or an andrology specialist.
I hope this helps.
dr. Nadia Nurotul Fuadah