The Reason Why Husbands Don’t Invite Their Wives To Have Sex?

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The sexual arousal of men and women can fluctuate (up and down) influenced by many factors, ranging from physical, psychological, environmental conditions, and so on. Some of the triggers for decreased sexual desire in men are:

Psychological pressure, for example due to stress, anxiety, shame, or lack of self-confidence (such as when you feel unable to satisfy your view) Fatigue Hormonal imbalance, namely a decrease in testosterone levels in the blood Certain diseases, such as diabetes, hypercholesterolemia, thyroid gland disorders Side effects of drugs, and etcetera. The one who knows best what causes his sexual desire to decrease must be your own husband. Therefore, invite him to discuss, what is it that makes him less enthusiastic. Is there any particular problem he is having? Does he have any physical complaints? If so, try to find a solution together. But if it's difficult, you can invite your husband to check his complaints directly to the doctor.

Currently, you can do the following steps first:

Discuss with your partner what sexual relationship techniques do you like. Take him on vacation together. Accompany him in living a healthy lifestyle, starting from sleeping regularly, eating nutritious food, avoiding smoking, staying away from alcohol, and exercising regularly. Avoid excessive masturbation.

dr. Nadia Nurotul Fuadah